Hay Day!

We had a photo shoot!

Windrush Alpaca Farm

What to do on a Saturday after soccer had ended?  Windrush Alpaca Farm in Clovis!  We spent part of our day there and were delighted.
Rosemary Metcalf gave us a wonderful tour.  We started with the rules, no running, no flapping hands and let the alpacas approach you!  We went into the main pen with the mamas and the llamas.  The alpacas are friendly, but cautious creatures.  They sported gorgeous fleeces and colors.  Rosemary held one of the younger brown alpacas for the children to touch.  He remained calm until Conner started towards his head.  Even his "naughty" behavior was mild and when released, Conner commented that he "jumped like a reindeer."
We then went to the "boy pens".  We all hand fed the alpacas and one was brought out to show us proper foot trimming, something alpacas require every two months.  We explored their lovely and unique coats and saw how thick it was.
The whole time we walked around, the friendliest cat in the world was cosseted and held by my children.  The cat, a tom, never once hissed, or even struggled with the kids.  The boys also doubled back to a hay barn and discovered more cats that needed their attention.
We went to the farm shop where we were able to see a blanket, socks, hats and other items made from alpaca hair.  We were educated and delighted all at once.

And how was your day?

The power of Words

Words have power.  From, "I do" to "help" to "I love you", words contain the power to change our world.  My kids are learning all about words.  They have learned one of the best things is when they spontaneously say nice things to each other.  I love to watch the recipient's face glow, and that small smile power their face.
On the other hand, my children have learned that mean words are not tolerated.  That it is far better to not say anything at all.  That slanderous words will get them a sit down.
Unfortunately too many adults haven't  learned this lesson.  While having an opinion is well and good, publicly calling someone out without speaking directly to them first is very immature and uncalled for.  If someone has done something to upset me, by all means I will speak with that person directly. 
My children are learning to speak up, at the moment of an "incident".  "You took my toy and I want it back."  "Don't call me that, it hurts my feelings." "I need my backpack, get off of it."
Maybe all of us adults can learn this simple lesson.  Tell someone, in person, and politely that something is a problem.  If you are rebuked, well, as I tell my kids, you can't control other people, you told them what was on your mind, and the better person will walk away.  Do we really need to make a public note with the person's name?  Sounds like libel to me.
Sigh, kids may be cruel to each other at times, but it is not really calculated in the way it is for adults.  We all need a better filter between thought and deed. 
There is the first stone, I am not qualified to throw it.
I don't think any of us are.


And how was your day?

The Eyes have it

On Thursday, Oct 28, 2010 Conner brought home a sticky squishy eyeball from his Halloween party. He promptly threw it to stick onto the living room ceiling. After James spent an hour shooting suction cup arrows at it, we decided to leave it. November 2, a second eyeball was discovered on the ceiling near the first.
As of November 11, they are both still there. We are officially starting a pool. Leave your guess in the comment box. Winner will receive a batch of pumpkin cookies.

My vote is January 28, 2011.

And how was your day?

Just what is Halloween?

It is no secret.  I have always loved Halloween.  I love to be scared, I love to do the scaring, I love the candy.  Say it with me, "FREE CANDY"!!  I love to play dress up.  I wish there were more dress up holidays!  I love Halloween.
Yet, it really wasn't until I moved to New Mexico that Halloween was presented with a negative image.  Where my biggest fear used to be healthy treats or bag snatchers, here I was told to watch out for my soul!!
So, when things puzzle me, I research.  Never having been content with a simple answer, and never having been content to follow the norm, I probed.  I found some very interesting stuff.  I would note it all in a nice bibliography complete with foot notes, but I do my reading in and around kid stuff.  That, and I was once told by an English teacher to stamp out all footnotes before they could breed.
Here is what I discovered.  Yes, Halloween is traditionally around the same time as Samhain, a wiccan holiday. Now, here is why. 
Halloween, or All Hallows Even, is a Catholic holiday.  Did you see that coming?  It is before All Saint's Day (all good Catholics must go to mass on Nov 1).  That evening or eve, good Catholics (yes, those early Christians) would light candles and go door to door offering to pray for the dead and those in purgatory.  Those doing the praying would get a "treat", something called a soul cake. I am betting it wasn't chocolate based.
Also, many people would dress up, or act as "mummers" and act out the lives or their favorite saints.  Remember, this was before baseball trading cards and comic books. 
Now, why near the pagan holiday....bear with me.
Early Catholic missionaries ran into problems with the early Celts and Brits.  Even the Norse.  Stubborn, stubborn hide bound people.  So the early monks did a bit of, hmmm, blending.  They wanted people to feel comfortable in this new fangeled religion (tell me again, the guy died for me?) where there was only one God!!  Whoooaaaaa!  So, some early pagan traditions were included in early Christianity.  Fish on Fridays?  Freya the Norse goddess had her holy day on Friday and her symbol was...the fish.  St. Brigid?  She was the Celtic goddess of healing and letters.  It is a fascinating thing to read up one (yes, I am a self confessed nerd).
So, Halloween, All Hallow's Even, was set at Samhain, to give the pagans a sense of continuation.  I bet it also drew in all of those wild young folk who were just jumping at the chance to join those crazy Christians!
Also, the calender that was used then, not so good.  Most people couldn't count past ten, less if they were missing fingers.  Keeping track of anything beyond a lunar calender was rare.  The priest were often not even literate.  The had memorized the Bible.
Let us also consider the time of year.  Harvest is just now over.  People have been working seriously hard hours to prepare for winter.  There was a mini Ice Age in progress, winter was cold, seriously so.  The earth would be tilting her face and the days would have shrunk.  Night had a long hold.  No electric lights.  No modern medicines.  It was likely that a sizable percentage of the community would die.  For reasons that the people really couldn't understand.
So, like any human, they took a fear, and celebrated it.  They brought fear out into the light.  The partied, they laughed, they snacked.
The more you laugh at your fears, the harder it is for those fears to seize you.  I say this as I still have a lingering fear of that stupid clown from "Poltergeist" to grab my ankles from under the bed.

So, in review.  Halloween can be what you make of it.  You can look at it's pagan roots and turn away from it.  Or you can admit that it also has Christian roots.  That it is also a silly Hallmark Holiday, complete with stale TV specials and early merchandising.
But in the end, please, oh pretty please remember: FREE CANDY!

Kids, Kows and More

Caitlyn recently attended a Fourth grade tradition on the High Plains.  She attended Kids, Kows and More, which is an educational agricultural program.  In Third grade they attended Farm Safety Day and that too, was a great experience.  This is the essay, as dictated to me, from Caitlyn, about her day.

What I learned at Kids, Kows and More
At Kids, Kows and More, we had lots of fun.  I’ve learned the six types of cows: Ayrshire, Brown Swiss, Holstein, Jersey, Gurnsey and Milking Shorthorn.  The milking was so cool and I liked Grace, the cow. 
We learned that you should cook your hamburger at 160 degrees or 180 degrees.  We also learned how to properly wash our hands.  Step one: wet your hands with warm water.  Step two: apply soap.  Step three: sing the ABC’s two times or twenty seconds while scrubbing your hands, top to bottom, between fingers and finger nails.  Step four: rinse away germs.  Step five: dry your hands with a clean towel or a paper towel.
 In Ranching, she should have talked about more than her cowboy boots.
We all loved Food Safety, it taught us how to be food smart.  We think there should be something on horses.  We learned it is not right to stick a food thermometer in not properly cooked meat and then stick it in a nice clean piece of meat
We learned that cotton is a plant.  It was funny when the cotton man showed us very huge underpants.  You should have taught something about peanuts.  We are peanut country!
Next year the third graders will love it when they go in Fourth Grade, like we did.  There should be more animals, besides one cow.  The burgers we ate don’t count.  There should also be something on emergencies. 
We all loved South West Cheese.   I totally wish I had more cheese!
We learned that we should have three servings of milk a day.  We learned about how, if you put too much cheese in the box you will have a blown up cheese box.  We are proud that we are the number one best selling cheese factory in the world. 
Thanks to the emergency booklet you gave me, I know that we need: a radio, a flashlight, extra batteries, a dust mask, food your family would eat, a floatation device in case of floods, pens, books, coloring books, etc.  Also, to keep your pets with you.
For your pets, you need: a bunch of dog toys, food, special medicines, lidocaine,  bandages and water.  All of that was because of the book you gave me.  I read the book. 
We all loved the trip!  You guys did a good job on the food.  All of the kids in my class liked the food, even me! 
The way they rotated was very cool, how they put on the music and we rotated left.  All of the city kids learned lots about the country.  .
We learned so much I can’t say it all.  We got to try some grain and wheat. Learning about the ancestors of wheat was awesome. 
We had a break after the wheat and we took pictures by the statues.  The Dora Coyote’s Fourth Grade had lots of fun.  We like the popcorn at the end.
We learned a lot at Kids, Kows and More.

Twin bonds

I was talking on Facebook the other day about how my kids fuss and fight with each other in the mornings.
Later that afternoon, the twins' teacher replied to my post:

Ah Julie, you should have seen your boys gravitate to each other this afternoon when William wasn't feeling good. Jimmy was feeling of his head and looking in his eyes. It was very sweet!!!!

I love it when the twin bond sets in and they are so caring and gentle of each other.
It reminded me of when they were two and I would take them, one at a time, to an indoor pool.  Once, I had James and through the entire swim session, he kept saying, "Nunum" .  For the life of me, I couldn't figure it out.  We got home and James squirmed down from me, ran to William and yelled, "Nunum," and hugged him.  It was "William" in twinspeak.  James wanted him brother.  *happy sigh*